Signs She Wants A Serious Relationship With You
Most men are incapable of feeling the signs that a girl wants a serious relationship with them. When they realize it, then it is too late. Whether they accept it or not, all men are not too good at recognizing a girl’s true feelings for them.
Love is complicated and tricky. You feel the most precious dangling feelings when you are in love. But there are certain things that you should do before that. Why are you not capable of seeing signs of a serious relationship with your partner? The reason behind it is that dating and relationships have been made complex and controversial in this modern era. Partners are afraid to show their feelings and think it is not good to show their all cards. The main thing that creates a barrier to knowing is the CONFUSION about whether she wants to make a serious relationship with you or not. When you start dating a girl within a few dates, you are confused about whether she wants a casual or serious relationship with you.
So there are certain signs you can see if a girl wants a serious relationship with you. If a girl really wants a serious relationship with you, she will show the signs to show you what she wants. So if you are good at seeing these signs, you will not be included in those men that are afraid to commit to love or relationship.
Do you think how long you date is a sign of to what extent she wants to have a serious relationship with you? If you think the same, so you are not true. Because this all depends on both of you in how many dates or how much period you start to know about each other and make good chemistry. So if you are dating for a long period, it does not mean both of you are in serious relationships. The certain signs shown by a girl will confirm that she wants to be more than a friend.
So Let’s Get Started!
Why Women Only Show Sings But Don’t Admit it?
Why Don’t Women Make First Move?
Women don’t make the first move but expect it from your side. Women only like to show certain signs that depict they really want to move the relationship forward. According to the norms, expect men to make the first move.
- Fear of Rejection
The reasons why women expect the first move from men include the fear of rejection. Women are usually afraid of rejection, so they are reluctant to commit to a relationship and only show some signal to move the relationship forward.
The other reason is hesitation. Most girls are hesitant to tell their boyfriends that they want a serious relationship. Because of this hesitation issue, they don’t show anything but some signs.
- Shy Nature
The shy nature is another factor that a woman doesn’t admit that they are really in love with you and wants to move the relationship forward seriously.
- Bad Experiences In Love
Some women have bad experiences in love, so they are scared of their past and don’t show anything first. And some women like those men who confess their feelings and find it unique. So they don’t reveal their feeling first.
What Are The Signs of Either She Wants A Serious Relationship With You Or Not?
This article has mentioned all the possible signs a girl can show if she really wants you. But the question is can you recognize them? If you cannot recognize them, you will regret when the ship would be sailed. So first, there is a need to know the signs that she can show you to make a serious relationship with you.
She Communicates With You Without Any Hesitation
Never expect a girl to open up to you on the first date. Most people are reluctant to open up to a person they are dating. They don’t like to share about their life too early. To make this possible, there should be trust between both of you. If a person trusts you, he will not think before sharing anything with you.
If a girl trusts you and shares her life planning and other things, then there is a possibility she wants a serious relationship with you. When she opens up to you, it is an obvious sign that she wants more than a friendship.
She has made you a part of her life when she doesn’t hesitate to tell you anything. When you know, she really wants something serious. You are lucky enough because you have found a girl that really wants you as a part of her life.
But keep it in mind if she shares everything with you because she trusts you, it does not mean she wants a serious relationship with you. There is a possibility that she only considers you as a friend, not more than a friend.
Her Expectations Increases Over Time
This will be a clear-cut sign that she wants something serious from your side. You will see an increase in her expectations. But how can you feel this increase?
She will get angry frequently if you would not talk to her when she wants. She will get mad if you cancel your plans with her. She will get angry if you refuse to meet her. She will ask you and mind it if you don’t call her or meet her in her bad times. So these are the obvious signs that she expects from you.
How often she calls you also includes how much she likes you and to what extent she is serious about you. If she really wants to have a serious relationship with you, she will call you even if she is busy with her important work. If you have long conversations with each other, then you should be sure that she is serious about you.
So when you know what she expects from you and has special feelings for you, don’t behave like the other guys that make their girl feel worthless.
She Becomes Happy Around You
This is a clear indication that she wants to be serious with you. When two persons find themselves funny and get each other’s sense of humor, it makes a great bond between you. If you feel that she laughs at your jokes and finds you funny, this shows she feels happy around you and doesn’t find you bored.
Because girls don’t find every boy funny and laugh at his jokes, if she does it, then there is something special for you. If she gets cheerful and your presence lightens up, this shows she really wants you around her. It also indicates that ahe intends to spend more time with you and make you a part of her life.
She Likes to Meet Your Friends And Family
This is one of the best indications that she really wants to have a serious relationship with you. If she tells you to meet your family and friends and become enthusiastic when meeting your friends and family, then you may be sure that she wants something serious.
Enthusiastic about meeting your family and friends show that we want to explore you and want to know about your background and your company by knowing your family and friends respectively.
This sign shows that she is not only interested in you but also in your family and wants to become a part of your family.
Ask You A Lot of Questions
This is one of the most obvious signs if you are good at recognizing the signs from her side. Most of the men don’t understand it and think the girl is clingy. That’s why she asks many questions. Sometimes men get irritated by the repeated question from her side but don’t know the true reason.
That does not mean she is clingy or irritating if she asks you many questions. It means she wants to know about you and explore your personality, habits, and likes and dislikes. It means she is interested in your life and wants to know everything about you.
According to you, what is the other way to get to know about you for her? Obviously, these are the questions that make it easy for someone to get to know about you. So don’t think negatively about her; think positive.
If a person is not interested in you, she will not bother to know about your life, your likes, and dislikes. If she cares about it, don’t waste your time confessing to a serious relationship she really wants.
Change Body Language In Front of You
If you are unsure whether she wants a serious relationship with you, notice a change in her body language when you meet. You cannot see her body language on the first meeting because on the first date, everyone is confused, and she doesn’t act in a way or express herself that she wants.
So after a few meets, you can notice her body language to know whether she is serious with you. Notice her body language in front of you and her friends. If you find a change in her body language, this shows she thinks differently about you.
This sign will help you greatly if you also want to move from dating to a serious relationship but don’t know what she wants. If you notice these signs, that means you have won her heart, and now she is interested in you and want to start a new chapter of life with you.
So what changes should you notice?
There are the following changes that you can notice to know what she wants.
Does She Permit You To Touch Her?
If you give her light touches and she doesn’t mind, that indicates she is into you and feels safe around you. So this shows she wants this relationship to be moved forward.
Does She Touch You?
If yes, you should not remain confused because a girl is reluctant to touch a guy normally. She can touch you on your knee or shoulder. Her touches will be soft and light because she would not want to make it more obvious to you that she really wants something more.
Does She Lean Toward You?
If she does that when you meet her, it means she feels safe if your presence and does not feel hesitant in front of you, so this is a clear indication that you can move your relationship forward.
Does She Fix Her Hair In Front Of You?
If she fixes her hair in front of you, that means she has a huge crush on you and wants something more. When a girl is interested in you, she becomes nervous and does not know what to do with her hand, so these movements can tell you what she wants.
Fixing her hair in front of you also shows that she wants to look perfect in front of you. Because girls are very conscious about their hair and want it to look appealing, they always fix it. If she does that, it means she has feelings for you and wants to look pretty in front of you.
A Lot Of Common Things
A girl doesn’t miss a guy with many common habits. She wants to have a serious relationship with a boy that has many characteristics like her, including liking singing, swimming, fast food, horse riding, hiking, gardening, and many more.
So if both of you have common habits, then you girl will definitely want a serious move from your side. If she talks more about your common habits, she likes this factor and will want to make a strong bond with you. If she frequently talks about the same likes and dislikes, then you must be sure that she wants to have a meaningful relationship.
She Introduces You to her Family
That is a definite relationship sign if she introduces you to your family and friends. A girl introduce a boy to her family and friends when she considers him more than a friend and wants to set a future with him. So if she does the same, it means she intends to have a serious relationship with you.
She Remembers Everything You Say
Does she know what your favorite color is? Does she know what your favorite food is? Does she remember what you do in the morning? Does she know whether you like coffee or tea? If she remembers everything, you say that means she listens to you with all her interest. Sometimes you will be amazed how someone can remember your words in such detail.
If she remembers every little detail, that means she wishes to be your girlfriend and wants to plan a future with you.
Always Try To Make You Happy
Some girls are good at cooking and baking. So if she makes cookies and brings your favorite candy bar rather than expensive fancy gifts, she likes to spend her spare time thinking about you. This is her way of showing her care for you. she will cook all your favorite dishes for you and be eager to help you all the time. So if you see this sign, you should know that she loves and cares for you. This is te sign that you cannot ignore at all.
Arranges Surprise For you
This is natural when someone remembers your special days, such as your birthday, and makes it special, you become happy and lean towards that person. A person is also precious to you that always remember to wish to at all the special events such as friendship days and other.
So if she arranges surprises for your birthday that amaze you, it means she feels special for you and tries to make you feel special. If you find these signs in her, then there is no need to think more about whether she wants a serious relationship or not.
How Does She Respond to You
How she responds is also a sign for you about what she wants. If she really wants a serious relationship with you, she will never waste your time and will not follow the “three-day rule.” She will not ghost you at all. She will be responsive to you and find ways to show that she is serious with you.
A girl does not like to play the mind games with whom she wants to spend her whole life. So if she wants you in her life, she will respond to your every question quickly and will not make you wait long for her responses.
She will find ways to spend more time with you and value your thoughts and opinions. If you find this sign in her, it will assure you that she really wants to make a strong relationship with you.
She will be Possessive of You
If she wants a serious relationship with you, she will be highly possessive of you. she will not like to meet you at your friend’s gathering. She will not want you to talk to other girls without any reason.
If she is possessive, she will ask, are you dating someone else? If she asks you that question, she obviously wants you in her life.
Some girls are shy and don’t have enough courage to ask that question directly, so they start with themselves. She will tell you that she is only dating you, not anyone else, and will expect the same from you.
If you are also not dating anyone else, don’t waste her time telling her. This will be a turning point in your love story. But if you are dating other women, don’t mislead her.
She Tells You About Her Past Relationships
Most girls don’t like to share their past relationships because they try their best to bury their past mishaps and move on. Girls are also afraid of people because people are used to judging others based on past relationships. Some also don’t share their past relationships because they get hurt when they talk about it.
So if a girl tells you about her past relationships, it means she is loyal to you and doesn’t want to hide something about her past. Sometimes, a girl also tells about her past relationships because she wants to tell you why there were walls around her before.
So, if she tells you about her past relationships, then she really wants to be loyal to you and have a permanent relationship with you without any ambiguity.
It also means that she trusts you, believes you, and feels safe around you. That’s why she opens up to you about her past affairs. She does not want you to hurt her as the previous exes did.
Do You Catch Her Glancing At You?
Little glances are not meaningless at all. Do you ever catch her looking at you? If yes, it means she wants to look at you and thinks about you more often.
If you catch her with an intense stare looking at you, it also attracts her towards you in a great way. If she glances at you very often in a room full of other people, it means her eyes only want to see you.
If she pretended she was not looking at you when you catch her looking at you, it means she does not want to be embarrassed and scare you off. It is also possible that she is shy and doesn’t want to reveal that she really wants something from you.
This sign is a definite indication of a serious relationship. If you notice this and have feelings for her, you waste your time and propose to her.
Giving You Cute Nicknames
To whom do we give nicknames? Obviously to our loved ones, our family members, our friends, and our pets because we love them. Giving you cute names is an obvious indication that she wants to start a serious relationship with you.
If a girl wants to move forward with you and does not hesitate to talk to you, she will start giving you nicknames. This clearly indicates that she values and thinks about you. she does that because she wants to make you feel special and separate from her other friends.
She gives you cute nicknames because she does not want to make you feel that you are only a friend to her. After all, you are not. If she has shy nature, she will blush after calling you a nickname.
So when you notice all these signs, you must be sure she wants to move this relationship forward. If you also want the same so you can call her with cute nicknames that will create a strong bond between you.
She Is Playful With You
A girl who loves you likes to tease you and loves to be playful with you. You also like this type of girl, whether you admit it or not. This is also clear that she wants a serious relationship with you.
If you also act the same way, this will help her express that you are into her and she really wants something serious from your side. This is the fact that everyone likes joyful girls, so if your friend is like that, there are chances of developing feelings from your side first.
She Cannot Remain Angry At You For a Long Time
In every relationship, there are certain arguments and fights. No matter how much you love each other, there are fights, and sometimes you become crazy, and your madness results in disputes. The Fights do not mean you don’t love each other. Arguments and fights play an important role in strengthening your relationship. Every couple has arguments, but what strengthens your relationship is how you resolve the issue and move on.
If she cannot remain mad at you for long, you know she wants a serious relationship with you. she does not want to stay in a war zone and make arguments on silly stuff.
This indicates tha she expects from you, she wants attention and care from your side, and she cannot live without talking to you. So by noticing this point, you confirm she wants to be a part of your life and that you are special to her because talking first after a fight is not easy for everyone. It can only be done by a person who really loves you and when your relationship is meant to them.
She Changes Her Habits
Being human, it is not easy for us to change our habits for someone. But when you start loving someone changing your habits, point of view, thoughts, and likes and dislikes don’t hurt your ego.
Changing your habits shows that you like your partner with you all your heart, and when a person loves someone, she wants everything in his partner.
If she were used to spending Saturday nights with her friends and drinking with her buddies, but now she is planning Saturday nights with you and want to spend more time with you rather than with her friends, this is a clear-cut sign that she likes you. This also indicates that she has added to the top of her priority list.
She Wants To Spend Her Vacations With You
If she tells you she wants to spend her vacation with you and book tickets for abroad and other places, then it is an obvious sign that she loves you and wants a serious relationship.
Taking off from work to spend time with someone is meaningful; not everyone wants to take a vacation for someone. There is something special when a person does that for you.
She Makes Financial Investments
There are two types of relationships. One is those in which she spends time with you, always tries to make you happy, cooks your favorite dishes, and sings a song that you like the most. If she buys gifts for you, pays bills at restaurants, and buy grocery for you, it means she wants you in her life and wants to move this relationship forward. But if a girl financially invests in some relationships, she wants a serious relationship with you.
The more money and time she spends, the more she loves you. If you notice an imbalance, then there is something suspicious. If she only lets you pay bills for groceries, tickets for events, and restaurants, it may be possible that she only wants you to pay bills for her, but it is not true in all cases.
She Texts You Daily
In a casual relationship, that is not necessary to talk regularly. But if she texts you daily more than once a day, it means she thinks about you every day and wants to speak to you regularly.
If you receive “Good Night,” “Good Morning,” “Take Care,” and other caring and loving messages from her, then it clearly shows she has feelings for you and wants a serious relationship with you.
Still, if you don’t notice these messages, you are really very bad at recognizing her sign for you.
She Does Not Use Dating Apps
In these, everyone is on dating apps. If you ask her whether she is on dating apps or not, she replies, “NO.” So it is a big sign that she has left all those apps and now thinks about you differently.
As we have mentioned, changing your habits is not easy, so if she does it, it means she wants you and your company, not anything else in her life.
She Talks To You About Her Friends
Everyone has a certain friend circle, and the friends are their loved ones. So if she talks about her friends with you, it means you really meant for her. This sign indicates she wants to share about her life with you and wants a long-term relationship with you.
She Does Not Shy In Public With You
If she does not hesitate to talk to you in public or her friend’s circle, this indicates she is serious with you. If she shows affection to you in public, it means she wants to make it public that she is in relation with you and indirectly wants to show you what she wants.
She Does Feel Reluctant to Put off Makeup In Front of You
If she does not think about how you would think about her if she were not wearing makeup. If she feels comfortable enough not to wear makeup and dress up always in front of you, this indicates the materialistic thing does not mean to her.
This sign shows how realistic she is and does not want to make a good impression by wearing impressive dresses and makeup, but she wants to win your heart through her deed and care for you. So if you notice this, you should be glad about your luck because you have found a gem for yourself.
She Starts Sharing About Her Personal Life
Especially girls are very reluctant to share about their personal life. If they share, they only share about the good and great things that happen in their lives and make a good impression on you.
But what does it mean when a girl shares everything about her personal life? What does it mean when a girl shares how she struggles to make a good life for herself, how does she tackle the bad time, how many times she has to suffer from emotional traumas, and where does she think herself standing after a few years?
If she discusses her personal life details with you, she wants a serious relationship with you, wants to add you to her future planning, and wants to spend her whole life with you. So you should not miss a chance to get such a life partner for yourself.
So here we have mentioned all the possible signs that a girl can show you to make it easy for you to see that she loves you and want a serious relationship, but how can you sense if she wants a serious relationship but is scared? So here we will mention some signs you can notice to check her mindset about a serious relationship.
Vague Signs That Shows She Wants A Serious Relationship but is scared
Sometimes a girl is afraid of getting rejected and is hurt by her previous boyfriend, so in this case, they don’t show clear signs that she wants a serious relationship with you.
Let’s have a look at these ambiguous signs!
Not Flirting At All
If you feel that she is reluctant to flirt with you and hesitates to touch or gets hesitate when you touch her, it indicates that she is afraid that you can fall in love with her but wants to protect herself and you.
This sign indicates that she has not been in love for a long time and has had bad experiences in love, but that is not necessary that she wants to have a relationship with you.
She Does Not Actively Search For People
Being single, she does not want to approach people to be in a relationship with because she is afraid to be in one.
She Wants To Take Things Slow
If you feel she is a little comfortable with you but wants to take things slowly, it means she wants a relationship with you. This sign also indicates that she wants to build something with you slowly and wants to make a hurry. This sign is also possible that she wants to build herself inside by growing the things slowly between both of you.
She Does Not Want To Let You Go
What should you do if you sometimes feel that she does not want to be your girlfriend and at the other moment you feel she also does not want to lose?
This ambiguous sign indicates that she is in love with you and wants a serious relationship but is afraid to lose you. This sign also shows that she wants to be n your life but is afraid to be your girlfriend. In this situation, you can make the first move to commit a serious relationship with her.
She Limits Hang-Outs With You
This sign will help you know that she wants a serious relationship with you but is afraid to be in a relationship. If she cares about you, talks to you nicely, spends an adequate amount of time with you, and knows your likes and dislike but limits the hangouts with you, so it means she wants a relationship but does not want to spend more time with you because she is afraid of love.
She Frequently Calls You Her Friend
If she does the things that show she wants to be your girlfriend, but at the same time, calls you her friend, then it means she wants to be called your girlfriend but is afraid of the girlfriend and boyfriend label. So it does not mean she has friend-zoned you.
Being Shy Around You
If she becomes shy around you, it means she has some special feelings for you, but she does not want to show it clearly, making her shy in front of you.
Wrap of The Discussion
In short, if a girl wants a serious relationship with you, then you can know it by noticing the various signs shown by her. So in this article, you will find a lot of clear signs that will help you to conclude whether she wants a serious relationship with you or not. She will be happy around you, comfortable with you, and will like to meet your family and friends if she wants to be a part of your life. But sometimes, a girl wants to be in a relationship with you but does not want to show it because of the previous failed relationship. In this situation, noticing the vague signs shown by her will help you a lot to make a happy relationship.